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Sharon Nowlan

Paquette, M.A.
Licensed Marriage and 
Family Therapist (132493)  

Online Video Tele-Therapy
Weekend Appointments Available
Engagement Ring
Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end!-John Lennon



I believe humans find healing, growth and reduced suffering through our connections and relationships with others.


I am trained and practice supporting people with sexuality, gender and relationship exploration and creating a sense of well-being.  

My pronouns are; he, him and his.

I guide people through sobriety from addictions; alcohol, love, social media and what ever else you can think of, with mindfulness and kindness.


My main methods are Psychodynamic/Relational and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with couples and families. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

Do you feel your life is a contest and you are not on your journey?

My work integrates a number of theories, models and styles with individuals and couples, making a new therapy for each client.    


 Dating as an Older Adult

 Addiction Recovery

 Gender and Sexual Diversity

Men’s Intimacy Concerns

Gender Non-Conforming Teens

Traditional and Non-traditional-

Romantic Relationships

Sex Concerns

LGBTQ+ Affirmative

KINK Competent

Pre-Marital Counseling

Sue Johnson’s Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT)

Dating for adults in person and online

kid friendly dog, dalimation, couples, families, parenting, relationships, same sex, work-life balance
nonmogamous, polyamorous, same sex couples, bisexual, kink, premarriage, EFT
LGBTQ, queer affirming, bisexual, nonbinary, kink, questioning
poly, bisexual, kink, poc, sexuality, sex, mens intimacy, open relationship, interracial dating,, nonbinary



San FranciscoBay Area


Dean Paquette MFT, psychotherapist, couples counselor, intimtacy, poly, lgbtq

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